You need to achieve success through the choices you make. Every day we are always in a position to make choices. Some of the choices we make mark the pivotal points in our lives. Nobody is going to make the choices for you. You have to make the right choices yourself.
If you want to succeed, you just have to do right. Habits to pick up, choosing friends, career choices, relationships to get into, and businesses to deal, transactions to make, people to trust. These are some of the things that really matter to people; these are some of the areas we need to make choices.
You have to take responsibility for your success. Do not blame other people or focus your attention on people helping you. Anybody can be a leader or a true winner. It is just a matter of forming the right habits and making the right choices. Habits are formed by the choices we make over and over again. When we continue to make the same choices, over time our self-conscious begins to replicate those choices over and over again. They form our habits, so you have to be careful when making decisions and considering choices to make.
There has to be an iota of discipline. You did not come into this world for jive. You are here for a purpose and I assure you that purpose is not a mean one or for you to goof around. You are meant for something great. Do not waste your time and your life chasing things that do not matter. Believe in something great. Have a vision and pursue it. You need to stay focused on winning and live your life with some passion.
You want to leave a legacy and not be a liability. You want people to look at you and say, “His life is a blessing for me”. Your life can be a miracle for other people and this is the time to make that foundation. Set your priorities right. Make adjustments in your life right now.
Success may not be contagious but passion is contagious. For you to be a good leader and a true winner, you have to be passionate about what you do. Remember you want to inspire people; you want people to believe in you, feel what you feel and buy into your vision. Listen, when you love what you do and put your heart to it and keep pushing and you are all pumped up doing it with all vigour, people will notice and find a reason to do same things. You move people to do things that they never thought they could do. This is the quality of true leadership. People will follow when you lead and you need to lead with your heart. All that wisdom, positive vibe, positive reaction, the right attitude, the great speech that gets people going are all a result of the foundation you have already laid for yourself. It all comes from the right choices you have previously made that have formed your habits.
You see, you are able to share your experiences and explain to them what works right because you have already moved past certain distractions and challenges. It does not take long for people to notice the uniqueness in someone. So forget about the conventional means and do it right. It will definitely pay off later.
Challenges will definitely come to knock you off your path but in every challenge there is a seed that is equivalent to success. We need to look for that seed. When you look at challenges this way as a miracle waiting to happen and not as obstacles, you have already taken your first step to a beautiful life. This is not a life that is void of challenges but a life that is not held bound by challenges. Every battle is won before they are even fought. So have the right mind-set, set your heart on overcoming all the challenges that come your way. You can never get better without them. They make you stronger and wiser. So we all need to grow from that problem and become better. Worrying is simply a waste of our energy because challenges are for our own good.
Constantly learn. Constantly do things that build up your character and strength. Improve yourself every day. Read books that empower you and get the right knowledge. Think creativity because you are a game changer and strive to be resourceful in other to be a true winner.
Donald Wogu is a motivational speaker and he is focused on encouraging and inspiring people especially the youths to live the best kind of life. He is a graduate of computer science from Rhema University, Aba. Donald Wogu is the CEO of Donny Ville Enterprises. firstname.lastname@example.org. http://www.donaldwogu.WordPress.com. 08130217864
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